"You were. But uh...I kinda did the same in a lot of ways?" Which still isn't easy to admit. It's easier to think Harrington is some kind of fluke, rather than admit he might have been passing a whole of judgements of his own. Shit was more complicated than just black and white. Which is annoying, but probably a good lesson. "...easier to push people away before they can reject you or whatever?" Ugh, that sounds so...'shrink-y'.

"Right? Not traumatic at all," he teases gently.