"Right." The first part was simple enough, but the rest- his expression fell. He was perceptive enough to tell that it definitely seemed like some personal experience there.

"I think that's...debatable. Like- is the person you want to date dragging you into shitty situations or is it like- occupational hazards, where they lead a dangerous life or- 'cause I'm going to be honest. I don't think anyone should be put into shitty situations or made miserable just for a chance to date someone. I'm sure there's probably exceptions to that, but-" he spread his hands a little.

"'Course I can come up with a few ideas. That's one of my specialties." Just give him some time, and he could put something together.